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Posted on 21. December 2017

How to Best Enjoy the Holidays Despite Chronic Illness

By Joanna Tierno

Do the upcoming holidays fill you with more dread than joy? Even for perfectly healthy people, the holidays can be stressful, but for those of us who have the added stress of chronic illness, we have additional worries about our health. Can we get through the season without getting sick? And, who will do everything if we do get sick? The truth is our plans don't always pan out, so here are my tips for getting the most enjoyment out of the season:

1) Do as little as possible. If someone else in your family wants to have the holidays at their house, let them. If someone offers to do some or all of the cooking or baking, say yes. For years, I had both sides of the family at our house for Christmas Eve. Despite doing all I could to keep it simple and stay well, a number of years, I was sick and tried to pull off the holiday anyway. My low point occurred when my doctor told me I risked my health trying to save Christmas. The realization that something bad came close to happening to me because I didn't want to ruin Christmas made me accept it was time for a change. Being a guest rather than a host makes so much more sense for me, and it probably does for many of you as well. It’s so much less pressure. If your holiday is just your immediate family, try to lighten your load by purchasing food already cooked, or by enlisting everyone to help out.

2) You don't need to decorate! OK, if your kids are little or it brings you much joy, go ahead and decorate a little. But, there is no need to turn your house into a Christmas village. Remember that everything you take out must also be put away. It’s a lot of work for anyone with a chronic illness. I used to have a ton of decorations. But after we lost them all in Superstorm Sandy, I didn’t replace them. We had so many things we actually needed such as electricity and heat, furniture and household items that needed to be replaced. It changed my whole perspective. I don’t really need decorations. In fact, owning them just makes more work for me when what I actually need is more rest. What I have now is two live potted Christmas trees that I can enjoy all year round. I don’t have to move them or change a thing!

3) Try to enjoy the season so your excitement and happiness isn’t tied to one day or moment. Living with a chronic illness means you can and will sometimes get sick and miss holidays or other much-anticipated events. If you enjoy the season, a missed party or event doesn’t sting quite as much. There are many ways to enjoy the season: Prepare some of your favorite foods, watch holiday movies, go for a ride and look at holiday lights and wear festive clothes or pajamas.

4) Find things you can enjoy even if you are sick or in the hospital. Being stuck at home or in the hospital for the holiday stinks, but it will sometimes happen. Do you have a favorite holiday book or DVD? Maybe you have holiday crafts you’re able to do? I always like to have things I can enjoy no matter what happens just in case.

5) Limit your exposure to crowds before an important event. This might mean only accepting the most important invitations so you don’t get sick before the big day. Or, it might mean doing your shopping online instead of going into stores. Remember: The more people in a room, the higher the odds are someone will have something you can catch. Try to keep the odds in your favor that you will be feeling well for Christmas!

6) Pace yourself, and prepare as many things as you can before the holiday or event. This has made it possible for me to pull off a holiday even under less-than-ideal conditions because I had already done much of the work while I was feeling up to it. Wrap presents as you purchase them, and write your Christmas cards early. You will almost always be glad you did.

7) Even though you will be breaking your routines, remember to eat well, get plenty of sleep and get your treatments on time. I don’t delay my immune globulin infusions for any reason. I either take it with me or stay home. Being consistent about everything you can control really helps. I also pack all my medications for the special day the night before so I don’t forget anything while in a rush.

8) Determine your own limitations based on how you are feeling and according to what is most meaningful to you. Don’t allow yourself to be pressured into doing more or being exposed to more than you are comfortable with. And, it’s OK if no one understands. When you have a rare disease, not everyone will understand, but you still need to take care of your own health.

Christmas is about love and hope and giving. It’s not about being perfect or having everything go as planned. Stay focused on the meaning of the holiday, and you are sure to get more out of it.

Stay well, and I hope you all have a Merry Christmas and a happy and healthy New Year!


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